Make yourself big and strong in the first place, and only then that you could be a good son, a good husband and a good father, don't hinder any of these!
Make youself powerfully,then which early in the day to be a good son,good husband and father. --------------------- early in the day 也不晚，为时不晚，不耽误... 看看这个，应该更符合你的本意。
