put … in one's shoes

e in one’s shoes 或者put oneself in one’s shoes 这个习语表示“处于某人的境地或处境来设想”,比如,I wouldn’t like to be in your shoes if they find out what you’re doing.如果他们发现了你在干什么,我可不愿设想你得有多倒霉.我们大家比较熟悉的是stand in one’s shoes,站在某人的立场上设想.You wouldn’t do that if you stood in my shoes.如果你是我的话,你也不会那么做的.

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put me in one's shoes - 我以这人立场看法
put you in one's shoes - 你以这人立场看法
put him in one's shoes - 他以这人立场看法

站在别人的角度。

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