How do you think i can make up with Jack?Set aside____you di

How do you think i can make up with Jack?Set aside____you disagree and try to find what you have in common.为什么用where不用what呢?这和不及物动词的关系麻烦具体解释下.The schedule,originally____out last week,had tn be cancelled because of the unexpected snow storm.也是用to be carried不用carried呢?The internet and the effect____brought about did a lot of good to our daily life and work.为什么用it 不用that呢?定语从句中that不是可以做主语么?