完形填空____just letting life happen to you ,goals allow you to

完形填空
____just letting life happen to you ,goals allow you to make your life happen(句子翻译一下）
A Because of B Instead of C in spite of D in addition to
Allso ____you write your goal in a particular way you are able to make yourself continusously ______situations that will bring you nearer to you goal(句子翻译一下
Aalthough B until c when Dunless
A aware of B worried about C familiar with D accustomed to