英语翻译When you make a lot of effort to get close to a woman so

英语翻译
When you make a lot of effort to get close to a woman so you can hear her and she can hear you,【 you project that you will do whatever it takes to make sure that she stays put and listens to you because you’re not actually worth talking to】.You send the message that what you have to say is not valuable whatsoever,so you are willing to do all the work for her.【Instead,if you can’t hear someone in a bar,lean perpendicular to her.Lean to the left or right if she’s facing you directly,and point to your ear so that she has to lean forward to talk into it.】括号中的怎么翻译啊