How do you get on with other people?

how to get along with others How to get along with others?Many people want to know,I have a good idea.Frist,you must friendly to every body.for example,if you borrow a pen to somebody,you must said do you mind if I lend this pen?When he say yes please,you can do it.In conclusion,you should very polite.And,you have to generosity,thus your friends will thinks you are so recognition to thenselves.Finally,you need to realize your friends or some people.Know about theirs hobby ,habitat or living conditions and so on.Such us theirs accommodation,folk,likes doing something.This is my magic weapon,do you understand?